When was the last time you gave your marriage a "Tune Up or Check up"? You do it for many other important items in your life..your car...your health. With Couple Checkup, you will invest $29.95 to take this assessment. The return on that $29.95......might be the best investment in your marriage!!! As soon as you finish, the analysis will be sent to you with a discussion guide to help you in your evaluation/discussion. If you choose, you can have the results e-mailed to your pastor or counselor.

Three goals of Couple Checkup

1. One goal is to celebrate your relationship strengths!
2. Another is to identify issues you disagree on and need to resolve.
3. Third is to encourage you as a couple to talk about your relationship.

Your results will indicate whether your relationship is:

Vitalized-Harmonious-Conventional-Conflicted or Devitalized. Types defined at bottom**

Click here to take Couple Checkup

What "type" of a relationship do you think you have? Wouldn't you want to know? Of the couples who have taken the Couple Checkup: 1/3 are vitalized or harmonious, 1/3 are conventional, 1/3 are conflicted or devitalized

If for some reason, you are in the conflicted or devitalized classification....please share these results with your pastor, counselor or contact The Gathering and ask for a Marriage Mentor. Even if you are in the other classifications, it is good to share the results with a Marriage Mentor. The Gathering is a partner in the Palm Beach County Healthy Marriage Initiative. It is our desire to lower the existing 62.4% divorce rate in Palm Beach County. You are encouraged to take this valid and reliable assessment tool: Couple Checkup. Want to know more: http://www.couplecheckup.com

Marriage Mentoring is a couple to couple relationship that seeks to help couples live out their vision for marriage. Mentoring brings wisdom, personal support and encouragement and help in hard times, to couples who are intent on growing a healthy marriage.

Marriage Mentors are not only seeking to help couples through difficult times, but are also interested in hearing couples' success stories, humorous experiences and other positive aspects of their relationship.Marriage Mentors become a resource of support, encouragement and accountability for married and premarital couples.

The primary goal of Marriage Mentors is to help equip couples for a happy, healthy marriage by teaching them vital skills in communication, conflict resolution and by sharing their own life experiences.

Call The Gathering office for more information about our Marriage Mentoring 561-622-4913.

Gathering Marriage Mentors
Angel & Lidia Borges Married 12/14/79 Thirty Years ago in Belle Glade Two adult married daughters. The Borges worship at Good Shepherd United Methodist in West Palm Beach. You can contact them at home 561-333-2740 or This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it Angel and Lidia are very involved in FamilyLife Marriage weekends.David & Suzette Gregg Married 7/1/78 in Lake Park They have two married sons and Gregg's worship at Sand Harbor Presbyterian in Jupiter. You can contact David & Suzzette at 561-721-3900 or This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it The Greggs enjoy traveling together! EG & Donna Harvin Married 4/15/67 ..43 years in Rockville, CT. They are two adult children and grandchildren. The Harvins worship at Trinity United Methodist in Palm Beach Gardens. They enjoy watching sports and Hallmark movies together. You can reach them at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it or 561-753-8578. Charlie & Becky Isiminger were married 5/14/1988 in North Palm Beach. They have a son and daughter who attend Cardinal Newman and a daughter at St. Clare They worship at St. Clare Catholic in North Palm Beach. You can contact them at 561-626-3879 or This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it They enjoy boating, traveling, bike riding and family activities Tony & Stephanie Munroe married 2/11/94 in Jacksonville, Fl Three daughters: Brooke attends Jupiter Christian High School and Taylor & Grace attend St. Clare. Munroe's worship at St. Clare and Vintage Worship. They enjoy walks on the beach, watching movies and praying together each morning. You can contact them at: 561-379-3171 or This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it Bob & Margaret Schuemann Married 6/18/77 in Valparaiso, Indiana They have five adult children-two who have died Kyle at 22 and Kristin at 36 Schuemanns worship at First Presbyterian in North Palm Beach you can contact them at 561-622-4913 or This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it
Couple Types as defined by taking Couple Checkup

• Vitalized couples are typically most satisfied with their relationship, skilled in communication and conflict resolution.
• Harmonious couples also enjoy high levels of satisfaction across most areas of their relationship.
• Conventional couples are often highly committed to one another, but not as skilled in communication and conflict resolution.
• Conflicted couples have a lower level of satisfaction and often struggle with many areas of their relationship.
• Devitalized couples have the lowest satisfaction and have growth areas in almost all aspects of their relationship.

Good News: Studies have shown that couples can improve their couple type by improving their relationship skills, such as communication and conflict resolution.